COMPLICATIONS

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" I think too hard and over analyze everything and as a result create these problems in my head that don't even exist."

Said a teenager on Tumblr who has got their life all figured out.

This blog update was requested by someone. Yes. I was pretty surprised too. People read this.WHAT!

So anyway, I want to go right into PMS mode and rant about how everything is non-complicated and how we as teenagers strive towards making it as complicated as it is humanly possible. We strive so greatly towards complicating the simple things that there begins a constant war between the remembering and the forgetting. Sometimes, it just becomes so that the complicated mess that we have created starts to become a normalcy in our lives and the simple stuff seems so alien. Familiar? Well I am too. I mean i just complicate the simple stuff but I'm sure there are other bigger complications.

So..the question here is..why complicate things?

I'm going to say three possibilities because my brain is not ready to come up with more.

1. Ego.

2. Attention.

3.Just plain Stupidity.

Let me explain. Obviously.

There are two kinds of ego,the male ego and the female ego each of them like on par together. If the female ego lets go then the male ego doesn't and vice versa. Hence, this leads to a shitload of complications. I'm pretty sure almost everyone has experienced this at some point of time in their lives. Don't you lie xD.

The next one,attention. This one is just so they can seem unique. Except it doesn't come off as unique. It just frustrates the people they are complicating shit with. These people just think that instead of walking a straight line, if they go around in circles, that people will notice and appreciate it. Well, the truth is people notice it all right, just not with the same appreciation they go for.

The last and thankfully the least is because they are just stupid. Yep. Pretty clear i think.

So to everybody who just loves complicated quit it. It's not as simple as saying it on Facebook as your relationship status or something. You need to get your shit together cause the receiving end is just sick and tired. Thanks.

Till next time lovelies.

I heart emoji you random stranger.

Stay Strong and Simple.

Bye! :* :)

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