Mistamories ;)

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Materialistic Amnesia.This is something I think we wish we all had.

You may not agree with this but trust me deep down you know we all have something we subconsciously wish we could erase. They may be little, they may be huge but we still want to erase it. Some one told me just the other night to write something about forgetting people or something and I don't know who it was directed at or if it was supposed to be a joke. But me being me , did not take it as a joke or get why they were saying that to me. All I know is , it got me thinking. I am being completely real when I say I wish so many things that have happened had not and  that some of the people I have come across are perhaps the people I am  better without. But being positive helps sometimes so I just think of them as mistakes that became memories (Hence the Mistamories.Geddit ;] ). Why? Just because, imagine if those things , good or bad , had not happened , you would never have turned out to be the person you are as of now. This very instant. Are you not proud of who you are today? Yes? GOOD. No? Then start. Because no one can make you feel inferior without your consent, Everything that happens, happens for a reason. Stop blaming yourself,others or life and go look for the reason. It may be worth the pain and the hurt. Think of all those things, all those people as stepping stones or hurdles set in your path towards finding yourself. Take everything that hurt you, all that negativity and work towards turning it into a positive. Sometimes all it takes to forget is to let go and move on.

That's all for today lovelies.

Stay Strong.

I wuv you *insert heart and kissy emoji*

Byeee!

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