LIFE.

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Life's like a box of chocolates , ya never know what you're gonna get.

Forrest Gump's mama wins at life. :')
Also , this is a 12 AM thing where I'm thinking very deeply about life and the cards it deals us , because that's what happens at 12 AM. Deep thinking.
Anyway , here I am thinking about some things that never come into mind anytime of the day except now and one of the most sensible thought that came into my head at this moment is "Hell! I should share this Ish." So here I am , like it or not , doing exactly that.
Anyone who knows me , knows that I'm not a very serious person and that I hate deep conversations because I just cannot deal with it. I hate confrontations. I hate them. Because first , I suck at it. And second , well there is no second. I just wanted to seem interesting. Oops.
So anyhoo , for me , life is nothing but taking everything that gets thrown at you and dealing with it and coming out of it. Smiling. Not come out as the broken and dark one. Or someone with an empty smile.So I do just that , I tread on life very lightly, too lightly even. And that's a hamartia. I'm dealing with it.
And I do appreciate when people say stay strong or ask if we are okay instead of just assuming we have given up and saying that they're sorry.
Life is something that you cannot escape , you cannot run from because no matter what it will catch up to you. So the least we can do it accept it for what it is and face it.
And look at it this way , it is a bad day not a bad life.
When people come up to me or anyone and say , oh my god you have such a good life , I literally go... why? Don't you. I mean yes problems exist but why dwell on them when there is more good? Good always overrules the bad. So get over it.
Also , don't judge someone's life from the outside because I guarantee you, you would not last a mile in their shoes. Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about so don't judge too quickly. Be kind. Always.
This is a midnight rant so it probably didn't make any sense but it is what it is.  No regrets right? xP
So...
That's all for today or should I say tonight lovelies.
Much love.
Be kind to one another.
Byee ❤

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